Uncontainable, overflowing, overwhelming. These are words that those who’ve come before us have used to describe their response to God. However, they aren’t usually words we would use or words that would be used to describe us.

What have we missed in this? What if the whole time we’ve been focused on the wrong thing and in the process we’ve missed out on what they knew and experienced? Join us this summer as we change the question.


Next Series

For the past five weeks, we’ve been walking through the life of Jacob. We’ve seen him wrestle with God himself, but also greed, envy, selfishness, pride, his identity and his family. And through it all, we’ve learned about the faithfulness of God and the consequences of fighting Him.

So how do we ensure that our own stories are defined by God’s will instead of our appetites? What lies are we letting stew? How do we back away from our weaknesses and instead embrace His promises?

Regardless of your own battle — temptation, identity, forgiveness — God wants to teach us how to fight. He wants us to confront the lies waging war in our mind and heart. And he wants us to be victorious, so that we can live lives of freedom.

Here are five ways to continue the fight now that [the series](http://hobokengrace.com/series/the-fight/) is over.

**1). Know what you’re up against.** 

Is there an area of your life that you are giving over to destructive lies, instead of trusting God? What’s weighing on your identity? Where in your life are you acting like a fool?

If you’re still working through this, ask God in prayer to reveal at least one area to target. Maybe you’re battling greed, envy, lust, pride, anger or bitterness. Or maybe you’ve been chasing success, money or influence.

Like a coach reviewing game tape, pinpoint your weaknesses. When do you feel most susceptible to envy? What are some steps you can take to ward off lust? How can you interject God’s truths when experiencing anger and bitterness?

Ask God to reveal what’s really fueling that emotion or habit. Throughout Jacob’s life, he struggled with many things. But behind much of that was his inability to trust in God’s promises. He thought he needed more.

**2). Be intentional.**

Knowing your enemy is half the battle. The other half is the fight itself. And if you’re serious about winning, you need to be intentional. Most fights require consistent training.

Last month, we talked about the power of incorporating [Rhythms](http://hobokengrace.com/blog/five-guidelines-youre-struggling-develop-rhythms/) into our lives. Try picking one day of the week to pray through your fight. Be upfront with what you’re battling and ask God for strength in the process.

Also, seek accountability in a friend or your dinner group. Ask that they keep tabs on your progress. Fights usually turn out best when there’s someone alongside us.

**3). Work on curbing your appetites**.

Throughout scripture, we see people called to fast. Fasting is a spiritual discipline that, over time, teaches us to stop prioritizing our immediate needs. It’s a symbol of humility and dependence on God as we learn to lean on Him.

Try incorporating fasting into your life on a routine basis — perhaps once or twice a month. And don’t forget that fasting can go beyond food. If it’s lust you’re battling, consider a [dating fast](http://hobokengrace.com/blog/one-year-dating-fast/). If you’re struggling with envy, try taking a break from social media.

**4). Dive in.** 

If you haven’t already, read Jacob’s whole story, from Gen. 25-50\. If you have read it, read it again. Now that the series is over, focus on the story’s major themes. Where do you see examples of God’s faithfulness? Where do you see Jacob living with the consequences of sin? And where do you see parallels between Jacob’s story and your own?

**5). Read on.**

There are several books that expand on some of the themes we’ve been talking about for the past five weeks. Here are a few recommended by members of our church family:

_Crash the Chatterbox: Hearing God’s Voice Above All Others_ by Steven Furtick

Day in and day out, each of us goes through life listening to and believing voices that tell us who we are or how to feel. How often are we letting God’s voice rule above all others? In “[Crash the Chatterbox,](http://www.christianbook.com/crash-chatterbox- hearing-voice- above-others/steven-furtick/9781601424570/pd/424573?dv=c&amp;en=google&amp;event=SHOP&amp;kw=christian-living-0-20%7C424573&amp;p=1179710&amp;gclid=CjwKEAjwn7e8BRCUqZiP%5FvnrtBkSJAC%5Flp4HzTfBNxeVO6iW5ola-zE2I8RetzjJi8I4Rf2dlLrNxhoC0LLw%5FwcB)” Pastor Steven Furtick exposes the many voices that lies sound like – fear, insecurity, condemnation and discouragement. We’ve all faced them at one point or another, just as Jacob did. Read this book to learn how to change your internal dialogue and embrace God’s truths in your heart and thoughts.

_The Freedom of Self-Forgetfulness_ by Tim Keller

In [this short but savory read](https://www.amazon.com/Freedom-Self-Forgetfulness-Path-Christian/dp/1906173419), Tim Keller discusses what true humility is by raising our awareness of the ways our ego is either building itself up or tearing itself down. He breaks down the fight within and explains how the freedom and joy God has for us can be found in self-forgetfulness.

_Unashamed_ by Christine Caine

By exposing how we let experiences of shame weigh down our identities, Christine Caine points to the truth that God is greater and longs to love and set us free from our pasts. “You can deal with your yesterday today,” [she writes](http://christinecaine.com/content/unashamed/gjrmyx), “so that you can move on to what God has in store for you tomorrow — a powerful purpose and destiny he wants you to fulfill.”

_Did you miss any part of “The Fight” series? Listen to it_ [_here_](http://hobokengrace.com/series/the-fight/)_._

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The Fight: Now What?

For years, Hoboken has hosted a summer movie series at Pier A Park. Under constellations and against the backdrop of New York City’s lights, picnic blankets and lawn chairs dot the grass each Wednesday night. Friends and families gather there each week, their faces illuminated by the glow of “Star Wars,” “The Big Short” or whatever film is playing.

But this year is slightly different. The air is saturated with a hint of salt and butter. Moviegoers wait in line along the sidewalk. And a group stands in the corner, handing out free bags of popcorn. 

Earlier this year, Anthony asked city officials if Hoboken Grace could hand out popcorn to the scores of people who attend [Movies Under the Stars](http://hobokennj.gov/departments/human-services/cultural-affairs/movies-under-the-stars/). “They came back and said let’s give it a shot for week one and see how it goes,” he says. “Well it proved to be a hit, and they invited us back for the whole summer.”

[![popcorn4](https://res.cloudinary.com/dzs7qxusf/image/upload/v1/archive/2016/07/popcorn4-682x1024.jpg)](https://res.cloudinary.com/dzs7qxusf/image/upload/v1/archive/2016/07/popcorn4.jpg)Since then, a small group has served there each Wednesday night, hauling one or two popcorn machines, a generator and other supplies to Pier A. More than a thousand bags of popcorn have been handed out so far, Anthony says. Like [Simple Service](http://hobokengrace.com/blog/power-simple-service/), it’s an opportunity to love and support the community.

A few weeks ago an entire dinner group helped out during the screening for “Star Wars: The Force Awakens.” It’s a good thing, too, because it was the largest crowd yet.

“We just kept making popcorn and the people kept coming for more,” says Victor, whose dinner group used the opportunity as an impact event. 

Matt, who has also helped hand out popcorn, says meeting other people while serving has been one of the most rewarding parts of the experience.

“Standing behind a crowded table slinging bags of popcorn around with some people is a way to get to know them,” he says.

Victor says it was fun to work together as a dinner group while also serving the Hoboken community. 

“It’s what being a Christian is all about: loving your neighbors as yourself,” he says.

People usually ask about Hoboken Grace and leave with info cards. Many are surprised that the popcorn is free and offer to pay, Matt says.

“I love when people come up and ask, ‘How much?’ and we tell them ‘It’s free,’” Anthony says. “They’re completely shocked. When they ask, ‘Why free?’ it’s a great opportunity to tell them about Hoboken Grace and how we strive to love our community any way we can.” 

_If you’re interested in serving at Movies Under the Stars this summer, email Anthony at_ [_anthony@hobokengrace.com_](mailto:anthony@hobokengrace.com) _with the Wednesday night dates you are available._

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Lights, Camera, Popcorn


Liberty in North Korea is one of Hoboken Grace’s longtime partners, and a missions team has worked with them in South Korea each year since 2013\. This week, the LiNK staff sent an email worth sharing, thanking those who visited in May and everyone from Hoboken Grace who has supported their work to settle refugees fleeing economic and political oppression.

“Just as the North Korean people were encouraged and empowered by our friends from Hoboken Grace, they find strength in our supporters from all over the world,” the staff said. “Thank you for the ways that you support North Korean people! Your partnership has an incredible impact and we are so grateful that you are part of the movement towards liberty in North Korea.”

LiNK also sent an [11-page newsletter](https://res.cloudinary.com/dzs7qxusf/image/upload/v1/archive/2016/07/Hoboken-Grace-Newsletter-2016.pdf) chronicling Hoboken Grace’s [most recent trip](http://hobokengrace.com/blog/new-beginnings-in-south-korea/), a week spent connecting with new friends, exploring a new culture and working with the organization’s staff.

[![korea](https://res.cloudinary.com/dzs7qxusf/image/upload/v1/archive/2016/07/korea.jpg)](https://res.cloudinary.com/dzs7qxusf/image/upload/v1/archive/2016/07/korea.jpg)

On their first day, the team presented a career mentorship workshop at LiNK’s Young Leaders Program. Nine North Korean-born students who are preparing for college are participating in this year’s program, a series of full-day workshops covering such topics as personal growth, professional skills development and career exploration. The four members of the Hoboken Grace team shared about their careers and the paths they took to get there, telling stories about studying Shakespeare before going into ministry, shooting videos for the NFL and providing financial support at an office.

The YLP fellows said the stories were interesting and inspiring.

“What left an impression on me was how each of the Hoboken Grace members bravely changed their career paths as they learned what they were good at, and how they consistently stayed true to who they were throughout the process,” said one fellow.

The team also led some of the LiNK staff members and interns in an empowerment workshop about healthy confrontation, schedule planning and work efficiency through games and team-building activities.

“Their teaching was very beneficial for us as a staff team to bond and learn more about how we can support one another,” the LiNK staff said. “It was also a fun time full of laughter!”

The newsletter also goes into detail about some of the food the team ate throughout their trip (pigs feet, boiled pork belly and noodles, tofu rice) and the people they met along the way. That included a baby who apparently was afraid of Anthony because he looked different from anyone she had ever met. (“But through his fun facial expressions and playfulness, she soon grew to trust him and the two became friends.”)

[![anthony](https://res.cloudinary.com/dzs7qxusf/image/upload/v1/archive/2016/07/anthony.jpg)](https://res.cloudinary.com/dzs7qxusf/image/upload/v1/archive/2016/07/anthony.jpg)

The LiNK staff said the connection between North Korean refugees and those who support them only grew stronger during the trip. They were able to share meals, culture, laughter and so much more.

“Throughout your time with us, I was reminded that what is happening in North Korea is not just a Korean story, but a global story that calls out for people from all over the world to notice, stand up and speak out for freedom alongside the North Korean people,” said Sarah, a LiNK intern. “What a powerful thing when North Koreans and their supporters get to meet each other and witness this partnership in person! I felt very encouraged by this and by you, and I hope to see even more people around the world connect with North Korea in meaningful and impactful ways.”

The Hoboken Grace team [said they left feeling just as impacted and inspired](http://hobokengrace.com/blog/new-beginnings-in-south-korea/) by the stories they heard and the people they met.

So from LiNK and Hoboken Grace, thank you for helping us support North Korean refugees. We can’t wait to visit LiNK again next year.


A Bond That Spans Thousands of Miles

Two years ago, Sarah’s husband of eight years became very sick. He was in and out of the hospital, and in addition to caring for her spouse, Sarah had a 5-year-old daughter in need of extra love and reassurance.

“At home I had to have my brave, strong face on,” says Sarah. “In front of my husband and my daughter, I needed to hold it together.”

Thankfully, Sarah had a place where she didn’t have to tell people that she was doing “fine” – her women’s dinner group.

“My dinner group told me it was OK to have my weak, disheveled, scared face on if that’s what felt better,” says Sarah. “And those women loved me and prayed for me.”

Sarah has been married for over a decade now but is completely committed to her women’s dinner group. While Hoboken Grace offers couples the opportunity to join a couples group together, Sarah and many others continue to attend a group on their own.

“I need that freedom to fall apart,” says Sarah. “And while it is important that my husband and I grow together in our faith, it is also important that we grow separately. The more time I pursue Christ on my own, the more I recognize Him as my Savior and the one certainty in my life, and I don’t expect my husband to step into that impossible role.”

[![sarah2](https://res.cloudinary.com/dzs7qxusf/image/upload/v1/archive/2016/07/sarah2.jpg)](https://res.cloudinary.com/dzs7qxusf/image/upload/v1/archive/2016/07/sarah2.jpg)

Many men in our church family also find that their dinner group home continues to be with just guys even after their relationship status changes.

For Chad, the choice to stay in a men’s group is one he and his wife, Joanna, revisit every year.

“We’ve been married for almost three years, and almost every year we talk about joining a couples group, “ says Chad. “But in the end we always decide to join groups separately.”

For Chad, part of this decision comes down to his evolving understanding of what dinner group is all about.

“When I first joined a men’s group five years ago, I looked at it almost more like a class or a Bible study,” says Chad. “I thought it was for me — a place for me to learn and develop. I’ve come to understand that it is much more about what you contribute to the group than what you get out of it.”

Chad thinks that in a couples dinner group it would be very easy for him to make group about himself again, with every conversation coming back to his relationship.

“Right now, I’m the oldest guy and only married man in my dinner group,” says Chad. “I try to share my perspective and experiences and make it more about ministry and less about me.”

Matt, who has been married for almost two years, says he has stuck with men’s groups just because that is where he feels most comfortable sharing what is really going on in his life

“There are some things that I really need to talk about that I just wouldn’t bring up in a couples group,” says Matt. “But in my men’s group it feels safe to talk about those things, and I don’t have to explain myself – it’s understood.”

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Ben and Vanessa started attending a couples dinner group before their first Sunday at Hoboken Grace. They were dating at the time and were new to the area and looking for community and connection.

About a year in, Vanessa was invited to attend a women’s dinner group.

“I attended both a women’s and a couples group for a few weeks,” says Vanessa. “For me, it was much easier to get to know other women in the women’s group. I also found myself talking a lot more and about more personal things. There were times in the couples group when Ben would answer a question and I might have had something to say, but it felt like we had already had our turn to speak, so I let other couples share.”

After taking a short break from dinner group after her son was born, Vanessa is back in a women’s group. She is one of just two moms in the group and only a handful of married women. At first, she admits, she wasn’t sure she had found the right fit.

“I quickly realized though that I could hang out with other moms any time I wanted at the park,” says Vanessa. “Dinner group is an opportunity for me to witness how God works in all of us at every stage of our lives. I’m learning from all the women who aren’t at the stage that I’m at, and I hope that by sharing some of the things I’ve struggled with, they are getting a more complete picture of God, too.”

[![DSCF3596](https://res.cloudinary.com/dzs7qxusf/image/upload/v1/archive/2016/07/DSCF3596.jpg)](https://res.cloudinary.com/dzs7qxusf/image/upload/v1/archive/2016/07/DSCF3596.jpg)


Growing Together and Separately


Thirteen people returned earlier this month from Hoboken Grace’s annual trip to Mexico, where they visited the staff and children of Casa Hogar Alegre orphanage. The team helped out in almost every aspect of the children’s lives, from painting and cleaning, to playing and helping out with homework.

“We basically love and serve the kids there,” said Amanda, who was visiting Casa Hogar for a third time. Originally reluctant to go on the trip because it fell on a family holiday over Memorial Day weekend, Amanda eventually told herself she would go regardless of the circumstances. The dates have fallen on Memorial Day ever since, but Amanda hasn’t stopped going.

“It is awesome and totally worth it,” she said. “We’re definitely impacting them beyond the week that we’re there. Every year that we go back we see something new, some other way that we can help support the kids there. You’re feeding them the Holy Spirit, and you’re feeding them the skills they need to succeed in the world.”

The orphanage is located in the Mexican state of Chiapas, which shares its southern border with Guatemala. As such, it is a common stop for Central and South Americans traveling north toward the United States. Along the way, families become fractured and children are frequently left behind.

![IMG_0013](https://res.cloudinary.com/dzs7qxusf/image/upload/v1/archive/2016/06/IMG_0013.jpg)Recognizing the dire needs of these children, Elizabeth Noguera — now affectionately referred to as a “Mama Liz” — felt called to take them in. While caring for her husband and family, Mama Liz did what she could to feed, clothe and educate many of the children who needed help. Finally, in July 1993 she became the official guardian of what is now the Casa Hogar Alegre orphanage.

The children at the orphanage attended classes from roughly 8 a.m. to noon. During that time, the team helped put finishing touches on a new two-story school building. Groups took turns disposing of leftover wood and bricks before finally painting the inside and outside of the building. In the meantime, others helped out in the nursery.

Once the children were done with classes after lunch, they split up into four groups according to age and attended classes taught by the team. Subjects included a Bible class, music, arts and crafts and sports. Language is a common barrier for both parties, but it never became a serious obstacle.

“The kids are so welcoming. They don’t care if you don’t speak Spanish,” said Amanda.

“Really all they wanted was to be loved,” said Kara, who went on the trip for the first time this year.

“They were so incredibly happy,” said Kara. “Just how happy these children were was unbelievable to me. This is their home. This is where they’re loved. And then when we come, they just loved to spend time with us.”

Finally, after dinner the children were free to play with one another. One day, the group watched a movie in the library. On another, the kids were treated to a day at the zoo. Impromptu dance parties via cell phone speakers were a favorite pastime. And on the team’s last night, the kids were treated to a pizza party, complete with a pinata.

“We were never bored,” said Kara.

But even on days when there wasn’t a special trip or party, the kids found ways to have fun. Soccer and basketball were both popular, as was coloring and playing with sidewalk chalk. The children were especially fond of taking pictures and videos of themselves on team meembers’ phones, a novelty of modern technology.

“They’re just like any other kids,” said Amanda.

One of the joys of returning year after year is developing bonds with the children there. Amanda now keeps in close contact with the family that runs the orphanage.

![IMG_7258](https://res.cloudinary.com/dzs7qxusf/image/upload/v1/archive/2016/06/IMG_7258-652x1024.jpg)“Having that, especially with the older ones — watching them grow and seeing how much faith is instilled in their lives — is really cool,” said Amanda. “It’s awesome to see how far some of these kids have come.”

The group was led by Amy, who has been traveling to Casa Hogar for almost a decade.

“Amy really did a great job as leader of the group,” said Kara. “How she did it is unbelievable.”

Anyone who is interested in serving on the annual trip is welcome to join. Men are in especially high demand to help out with the heavy lifting that often comes with the job. Many of the boys also look up to and admire the guys in the group. One volunteer, Johnny, has been visiting the orphanage for several years and has developed a strong bond with the boys there.

“He makes it a priority to go on this trip,” said Amanda. “It’s cool to see how the boys of the orphanage look up to him.”

Others who wish to help Casa Hogar can donate via their website. The home receives little aid from the government, so donations are welcomed. All contributions directly support children at the orphanage.


&#8216;All They Wanted Was to Be Loved’

_TEAMS is a monthly series that celebrates the talent and impact of those who serve at Hoboken Grace._

It’s a Sunday morning, and the band starts out slow. Lyrics are centered on the screen. The stage is bathed in blue. And if you’re paying close attention, you’ll notice the lights subtly fade to orange-red as the music intensifies.

But you likely didn’t notice, or pause to process it. In fact, the people in the production booth would rather you didn’t, because that means they’re doing their job well. They would prefer that you were too into the worship music, too busy melting into the moment, to pick up on the shift.

“What I enjoy most is running sound when we’re at the peak of our worship set, just looking around and seeing everybody fully into it, their hands in the air, and not thinking about what things look like, what things sound like,” says Jeff, who serves on the production branch of the Worship Team. “They’re not noticing that. They’re just full-on worshiping.”

In addition to using sound and lighting to create an environment that is both intimate and inviting, those serving in the production booth also control what projects on screen, ensuring lyrics, scripture and video appear on time and in the right order. They edit and post podcasts, maintain much of the equipment and troubleshoot on the fly when the unexpected happens. And they work throughout the week, preparing as much as possible for Sunday morning.

[![](https://res.cloudinary.com/dzs7qxusf/image/upload/v1/archive/2016/06/DSC_7198-e1467217431137-1024x633.jpg)](https://res.cloudinary.com/dzs7qxusf/image/upload/v1/archive/2016/06/DSC%5F7198-e1467217431137.jpg)

That subtle light transition, in fact, was likely planned days in advance, crafted to enhance the ambiance and fit the band’s goals for that set. The Worship Team usually knows which songs are planned at least a week ahead of time, then rehearses on Wednesday nights. It’s there that the people responsible for the lights and computers that Sunday settle on what color, what mood, fits a song best. Then they put together a rough layout of the lights and slide backgrounds.

“If it’s a little bit quiet of a song in the beginning, we’ll make it a little bit dark,” says Mark, who started serving on the Production Team six years ago, before it became part of the Worship Team. “And then we’ll work our way toward something brighter. There are different techniques to fit the mood of the song.”

Choosing the visual look of each song – the lighting, the slide backgrounds – allows the team to flex their creative muscle and introduce new ideas, says Helen, who leads the visual component of the team.

Meanwhile, the person responsible for sound that week is also listening throughout rehearsal, keying in on where an instrument or a worship leader needs to be heard above the rest of the band. Finding those shifts helps them layer the mix, making the song sound as good as possible in a live setting.

“Joining the team has been an eye-opening experience to see how much work and planning goes into each service,” Helen says.

[![](https://res.cloudinary.com/dzs7qxusf/image/upload/v1/archive/2016/06/DSCF3515-e1467217874775.jpg)](https://res.cloudinary.com/dzs7qxusf/image/upload/v1/archive/2016/06/DSCF3515-e1467217874775.jpg)On Sunday mornings, those serving in the production booth meet at 7 a.m. to set up the speakers and other equipment, power things up, roll through sound check, and make sure everyone serving on stage has the right microphone. There’s a team huddle and they pray. Then the countdown starts, the intro video plays and the service begins.

“We’re behind the scenes, but we’re still an integral part of what’s going on, just like we’re all parts of the body in the church,” says Jeff. “The band needs us to do our job, and we need them to do theirs.”

And it’s a job that anyone can learn, the team says.

“People see what we do – they see the lights on the boards, they see all the fancy stuff, all the knobs and all the sliders, and they think, oh man, I could never figure that out. It’s way easier than anyone thinks it is,” says Mark, adding that someone with no experience could get the hang of things in just two weeks.

Mark says that when he started serving, he initially didn’t see it as an important role.

“I saw it as, it helped, it makes it nicer, it gets people more engaged,” he says. “But I always thought, if we weren’t there, it wouldn’t be that big of a deal. And then, probably about a year in or so, we started doing stories more regularly and I heard how, in many of the stories, people were saying they weren’t able to make it to church, but they were able to listen to the podcasts, and how many people got saved through that, and really got to know God.”

For Helen, one of the most rewarding things is working alongside other people who enjoy serving. Each week is different, she says. Some weeks involve more creativity, or require the team to think more on their feet. But everyone works together to make sure things go as smoothly as possible.

And amid the glow of sound boards and computer screens, there’s a glimpse of a bigger picture, Helen says.

“Sitting in the back,” she says, “you can see the reactions when people get baptized or are worshiping, and see what an amazing community there is.”

[![](https://res.cloudinary.com/dzs7qxusf/image/upload/v1/archive/2016/06/unspecified-13-1024x678.jpeg)](https://res.cloudinary.com/dzs7qxusf/image/upload/v1/archive/2016/06/unspecified-13.jpeg)

**The Worship Team — Production**

**Mission:** The Worship Team is part of the Arts department. We lead the church in worship each week through song and by creating intimate and exciting environments through production. We provide the model for what worship looks like and use sound, lights and media to allow for the clear and beautiful communication of the message of Christ.

**The commitment:** Serves on Sunday mornings and attends weekly rehearsals.

**How you can join or find out more information:** Email dana@hobokengrace.com, or stop by the production booth any Sunday to meet the team and ask questions.

_Want to learn more about serving on a team at Hoboken Grace? Attend our [Intro to Impact](https://hobokengrace.churchcenteronline.com/registrations/events/9294) class this Sunday from 12:45 pm – 1:45 pm. You can also join a team [here](http://hobokengrace.com/serve/)._


Striking the Right Tone

It was Sunday morning at Hoboken Grace. The house lights were dimmed, the worship band had just launched into their first song, and as she sat in the dark, Jen couldn’t help but think how safe the brightly lit stage looked. She longed to be back up there, where she knew what she was doing.

“I know standing on stage with a microphone isn’t most people’s safe place,” says Jen. “But I grew up singing in the church, and when I’m on stage singing, I don’t have to come up with things to say. The words you’re supposed to sing are right there on the screen. All I have to do is the same thing I’ve been doing since the Sunday school Christmas pageant.”

The security of being told what to say and knowing exactly what was expected seemed especially appealing to Jen that Sunday morning because she had just agreed to lead a dinner group. In a little over 24 hours, she was going to go sit in a restaurant and hope that a dozen strangers showed up to listen to her and share with each other. For an introvert like Jen, it was the stuff nightmares are made of.

Jen swears that her journey to become a dinner group leader began as just a funny misunderstanding.

“When I went to my first connection event at Hoboken Grace, I was desperate to meet people,” she says. “I was new to Hoboken and didn’t know anyone. I was running around the bar frantically introducing myself and hoping to feel less alone.”

At the time, Jen didn’t realize that Hoboken Grace’s dinner groups director, Nick Lenzi, was watching her meeting people and thinking to himself: “Wow, she’s really comfortable in this sort of a situation. I bet she’d make a great dinner group leader.”

![DSCF2074](https://res.cloudinary.com/dzs7qxusf/image/upload/v1/archive/2016/06/DSCF2074.jpg)

Soon after, Nick stopped Jen after church and asked her to consider leading a group.

“That just seemed like a funny joke to me at the time,” said Jen. “I was still adjusting to living in Hoboken. I was already serving on the Worship Team. And leading a group of strangers in deep, meaningful conversations was about the last thing I felt qualified to do.”

But Jen agreed to think about it and pray about it, and over the next couple of weeks she felt God calling her to step outside of the familiar, the known and the comfortable.

“God kept on coming back to me and telling me that we could get through this together,” says Jen. “He said it would be hard, but that it was time for me to stretch, time for me to grow, time for me to trust Him. And He promised me that I would learn a whole lot about Him and myself in the process.”

Despite Jen’s fears that no one would show up to the group’s first meeting, she did not spend that first Monday night sitting alone in a restaurant doodling on a napkin. Nine women joined her, and Jen says she fumbled her way through some icebreakers and nothing disastrous happened. She then went home and created an elaborate Excel spreadsheet.

“I had everything about dinner group planned out for the next two months,” says Jen. “I thought that if I was going to do this, I was going to manage the heck out of it and then it wouldn’t be so scary. I wanted to feel like I was in control of this crazy thing I’d just taken on.”

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But it only took a few weeks for that carefully constructed plan to fall apart. On a Monday night when Jen had planned fun hangout activities, it quickly became clear that the group needed to have some heartfelt conversations instead, and so Jen let go of her plan and gave the group over to what God wanted to do that night.

“Every week I understand more and more that this isn’t my group,” says Jen. “It’s God’s group. And that’s an enormous source of strength and comfort for me. The more I get myself out of the equation, the more space there is for Him to show up and lead us where we’re supposed to go.”

Six months after launching the group, Jen says she’s able to think less about all the things she isn’t and focus more of her attention on everything that God is. Her doubts about leading, the different personalities and backgrounds of the women in her group, it all seems small when compared to the one thing holding it all together — God.

On Memorial Day weekend, Jen climbed the stairs to the stage for the first time in months. This time, though, she was holding hands instead of a microphone, as she and the women of the dinner group stood by as one of their own got baptized.

“I got to hold the hand of a new sister in Christ,” says Jen. “I was bawling on stage in front of everyone. I was overwhelmed with joy for what was going on in this woman’s life and so, so grateful that I got to stand alongside her.”

When people ask Jen how leading a dinner group is going, she says: “Really well, in spite of me.” It’s still not easy or always comfortable, but Jen says she knows she is exactly where God wants her to be right now.

“The more I can accept that I’m not in control, the easier it is for me to see that God is,” says Jen. “I don’t need to always know what God has planned. I think I’m at my bravest when I’m in the dark, and I have to hold onto His hand.”

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PORTRAITS: Stepping Off the Stage

Sarah Fishbien first started talking to me about [Rehema Home orphanage](http://www.rehemahome.org/) in Nairobi, Kenya, when I was working with TRUE Mentors. Sarah had been working with them for years and told me all about the beautiful children who lived there and about the way God was using Ruth and Irv Schwandt, the couple who run the orphanage, to love the 63 children they had taken in and called their own. Our first idea wasn’t to go to Kenya, but simply to connect our TRUE Mentors children with the Rehema Home children to create greater awareness for both groups about the other.

TRUE Mentors kids received letters and pictures from the children in Rehema and in turn sent cards and pictures as well. Our hope for building connection grew when the TRUE Mentors children wanted to raise money to help support their friends in Kenya. We created a T-shirt design competition for the children and worked with a local company to produce shirts to sell. One of our leader’s businesses got involved and not only matched our funds for raising the money, but also purchased a shirt for each child at Rehema Home.

[![](https://res.cloudinary.com/dzs7qxusf/image/upload/v1/archive/2016/06/10801499_10152803438247878_8306071755175050888_n-e1466686224371.jpg)](https://res.cloudinary.com/dzs7qxusf/image/upload/v1/archive/2016/06/10801499%5F10152803438247878%5F8306071755175050888%5Fn-e1466686224371.jpg)When Hoboken Grace began to expand their love globally through mission trips, it seemed right to propose a trip to Rehema Home to continue building relationships. The church agreed, and we had a small group of amazing people sign on. Having never been to Kenya, I wasn’t sure what to expect. I’d seen the pictures and heard some of Sarah’s stories about the children coming from the slums of Nairobi, but it was still a big unknown.

During our trip, my heart wasn’t ready for the love the children exude. They are amazing, happy, well-adjusted, well-behaved and clearly very loved. They just wanted to love you, know you and spend time with you. I thought I would be the one to go and give, but my time with them proved I received so much more. I was able to connect with several of the children one-on-one and even after leaving, build a mentorship via email with one of the older boys who is interested in the same line of work that I do.

[We’ve been back a second time,](http://hobokengrace.com/blog/thumb-wars-and-mr-giggles-kenya-mission-trip-memories/) and the relationships continue to build and expand to new team members and new church members. Many from Hoboken Grace have begun to sponsor children at Rehema and connect with them one-on-one. Last year, Unilever made a large donation of products because one of the generous women in my dinner group wanted to get involved but couldn’t make it on the trip. And more companies with connections to Hoboken Grace members are getting involved in supporting the orphanage.

The [third trip](http://hobokengrace.com/mission-trips/) (Sept 30-Oct 15) and our [informational fundraiser](https://www.facebook.com/events/194285170965462/) (July 14, at 7 p.m. at the Pilsener Haus & Biergarten) are coming up. We are very excited to see how the mission for loving these beautiful children in Kenya is going to continue to evolve. During the trip, we will be building a house for the children who are aging out of the orphanage. Some came in as babies and now are starting to turn 17, 18 and 19\. God has helped raise money for a transitional home, and we are going to help with some of the construction of the house, called “The Bridge.”

_To find out more information about Hoboken Grace’s trip to Kenya, email Anthony at anthony@hobokengrace.com._


Building Connections in Kenya

The best books, it seems, come crashing onto us like waves, splashing cold water on old ideas and perceptions. They erode the ways we once viewed ourselves, God and the world around us and shift the sands of our thinking. They soften us like seaglass, then retreat with the tide, leaving us transformed in a way we never quite expected.

Whether you’re headed to the beach, the pier or a road trip, there are some great books worthy of your summer reading list with the potential for such a sea change. They include new releases and old favorites, books about resting, books about working and books just about savoring the moment, wherever you are.

Here are a few suggestions:

**Present over Perfect (Released Aug. 9)**

Just in time for beach season, Shauna Niequist’s [new book](http://www.presentoverperfect.com/) explores what happens when we quit treading life barely above water and find freedom from the isolating currents of our frantic schedules, perfectionism and people-pleasing. In a series of essays, she trades stress for solitude, hustling for honesty, and commitments for true connection – with God and the people around her. Life outside the undertow, she discovers, is worth fighting the tide.

**The Prodigal God**

While most sermons about the parable of The Prodigal Son focus on the story’s disobedient younger son and his father’s joy when he returns home, Tim Keller turns that idea on its head, dedicating just as much time to the morally upright older brother. “The targets of this story are not ‘wayward sinners’ but religious people who do everything the Bible requires,” Keller [writes](https://www.amazon.com/Prodigal-God-Recovering-Heart-Christian/dp/1594484023). “Jesus is pleading not so much with immoral outsiders as with moral insiders. He wants to show them their blindness, narrowness, and self-righteousness, and how these things are destroying both their own souls and the lives of the people around them.”

In a commentary on culture, religion and God’s grace for us all –the “immoral outsiders” and the “moral insiders” – Keller challenges both believers and skeptics. It’s a quick read, and one with something for everyone, regardless of your experience with faith.

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**The Acts of the Apostles Study Book**

From the makers of the He Reads Truth and She Reads Truth Bible-reading apps comes a [42-day summer devotional](http://shereadstruth.com/2016/04/22/announcing-our-summer-plan-acts/) on the Book of Acts. While the reading plan is already available for free through the He Reads Truth and She Reads Truth apps, there is also a gorgeous, 208-page study guide available, filled with illustrated maps, history guides and even recipes. You can also follow along with the global He/She Reads Truth communities online and on social media. The reading plan officially kicked off on the app on June 6, but you can join any time (and because the plan started already, the study books – [his](http://www.shophereadstruth.com/product/the-legacy-series-acts) and [hers](http://www.shopshereadstruth.com/collections/acts-1) — are now on sale at discounted prices).

**Jesus Is \_\_\_\_**

In “[Jesus Is \_\_\_\_](http://jesusisbook.com/),” Judah Smith asks the reader to fill in the blank. With humor and honesty, he finishes the sentence a different way each chapter, diving into stories where Jesus befriends not the religious leaders, but those whom the Pharisees deemed the worst of sinners. In this study of Jesus’ words and actions, Judah challenges readers to rest in God’s grace instead of trying to earn salvation.

**Garden City**

By Pastor John Mark Comer of Portland’s Bridgetown Church, “[Garden City](https://www.amazon.com/Garden-City-Work-Being-Human/dp/0310337313)” seeks to answer some of faith’s biggest questions about work and rest. _How do I fit into God’s story? Should my calling overlap with my career? Do I need to work for a church or nonprofit to be doing His work? Do we really need to observe the Sabbath?_ 

The book starts in the lush gardens of Eden, with Adam and Eve using God’s raw materials to begin building civilization, and progresses to today’s modern cities, where God’s people are still cultivating the land, advancing culture and striving for a better world. And from the pastor to his MacBook repairman and the coffee barista down the street, John Mark argues, every job and skill set is just as important in God’s eyes.

**Uninvited (Released Aug. 9)**

From the party invitation that never came, to the judging eyes of that person at the gym, the lies that follow rejection can eat away at our purpose, our dreams and our relationship with God if we let them. In her [new book](https://www.amazon.com/Uninvited-Living-Loved-When-Lonely-ebook/dp/B01864DVG6) due out later this summer, Lysa TerKeurst examines how we can embrace God’s truths instead of our own fears and insecurities.


Books for Your Summer Reading List

When parents choose to dedicate their children at Hoboken Grace, they promise to remember that their child is a gift from God and that because God loves their child more, His plans for the child’s life are better than theirs. This can be difficult to commit to, but every year at Hoboken Grace more and more parents choose to make this commitment. Parents pledge to put their relationship with God first, their marriage second and their child third.

Vinny and Soomin have dedicated both of their daughters at Hoboken Grace and stress the importance of having other Christians surrounding their children to echo the truths they are teaching at home. “It takes away so much pressure. I recognize that I don’t own them and that my main focus is just pointing them to God,” said Vinny. They compare the process to growing a plant: “You plant a seed, you water it and God grows it.”

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Grace Kids also helps them keep their daughters engaged all week long. “We are memorizing Bible verses together and praying together. Without these things, we would feel empty. Doing these activities helps us build a strong foundation for our children,” said Vinny.

Kelvin and Nancy dedicated their baby girl, Kaiteri. “We wanted to commit to loving her and nurturing her in a way that will help her know her creator and the lover of her soul,” they said. “We also want to make sure we continue to put God first in our lives and our marriage second. We know that the best way for her to know God is not through anything we say, but through our actions. We hope that she will see our passion for God and hunger for the same in her life.”

As children mature, they will hold on to those strong truths that have been surrounding them in loving communities. These parents understand that they can’t force their child to follow God, their child has to decide to follow Christ on their own.

It can be a difficult journey, but Hoboken Grace is here to help. Parents are invited to participate in the Baby Dedications offered twice a year. The next one is coming up and will be held on Sunday, October 16th. If you are interested in learning more about what it means to take this step, you can sign up [here](https://hobokengrace.churchcenteronline.com/registrations/events/10944). In preparation of the dedication, parents come together to talk about what it looks like to make a commitment to raise their children to know Christ.

There are also resources available through Grace Kids, such as the “parent cues” that Vinny mentioned. And in addition to supporting families on Sundays and throughout the week, Grace Kids provides an opportunity for our church family to support these little ones as they grow. You can sing, help or teach in one of the [Grace Kids ](https://hobokengrace.churchcenteronline.com/registrations/events/36725)classes on Sundays or help put supplies together during the week. It’s all about helping children grow in loving communities. Sign up [here](https://hobokengrace.churchcenteronline.com/registrations/events/36725) to learn more.

Nancy and Kelvin say there are two truths they want their daughter to know above all else: “I want her to know that she can trust God with everything in her life, no matter how big or small. And I want her to understand and demonstrate His grace.”

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It Takes a Village

Sometimes it can seem like life is one long fight. Sometimes it can seem that God is actually fighting against us.

Join us this summer as we take a look at someone who spent their life believing that God was against them only to discover that God was the one fighting hardest for them.

Life may be a fight, but we don’t fight alone.


Coming This Sunday

Whether it’s a special occasion, like a baptism, or just an ordinary weekend spent with friends and family, there’s always something to celebrate on Sunday mornings.

It just got easier to share those moments. Each Sunday morning at 301 Garden, look for Hoboken Grace’s geofilters on Snapchat. Just snap a picture with friends or family, then swipe and send!

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Snapchat Sundays


For the past few weeks, we’ve talked about incorporating rhythms into our lives in order to engage with God throughout the day. The series kicked off with the challenge of living in the awareness that “in Him, we live and move and breathe.” And during the past few Sundays, we’ve discussed different ways to weave rhythms throughout the day so that we are in constant conversation with Him.

But new habits don’t develop overnight. And as Pastor Chris has explained, we often must first acknowledge and embrace the disabilities that keep us from hearing how God is speaking into our lives. Here are five guidelines if you’re struggling to develop rhythms that lead to a meaningful conversation with Him.

**1). Start small**

Rome wasn’t built in a day and neither are daily habits. Be patient with yourself and aware of what is and isn’t a realistic addition to your routine. If you already find it difficult to pray first thing in the morning ― whether it’s because you have kids or because you’re usually scrambling to get out the door ― trying to make prayer work at that time will likely just lead to disappointment.

Instead, build new habits around old habits. Evaluate the places where God Time can complement your already established routine. Maybe it’s during the hour you have carved out for lunch, or during your kids’ naptime. Or maybe prayer fits into your morning run and also during your commute home. If you’re struggling to make something stick, try starting with something simple, like engaging with God for a few minutes every time you brush your teeth. Then expand the conversation to other parts of your day.

**2). Work on changing the conversation**

In Thessalonians, Paul tells us to be joyful and pray continually. As Pastor Chris said a few weeks ago, Paul is calling on us to change the conversation. Instead of talking to yourself all day, talk to Him ― just as you would talk to a friend. If you find the conversation drifting back to you (and you likely will), try exercising that muscle through journaling. Instead of journaling for yourself, write as if you were talking to God.

**3). Tame your wandering mind**

Create space to talk to Him with limited distractions. Pinpoint where your mind is going instead and try eliminating it. If you find yourself staring at dirty laundry and dishes in the sink, head to a coffee shop or the pier. And if it’s your phone that’s distracting you, leave it at home.

If your mind is still going elsewhere, find something to rein it in. For those who find it particularly difficult to sit still and focus, try meditating on His word with scripture-based adult coloring books (yes, really). Coloring reduces activity in the amygdala ― where our worries and other stress-induced emotions originate ― and is a meditation unto itself. While your mind might still wander, it can’t go far. So try dreaming and creating alongside God while illustrating scripture. As an added bonus, you’ll probably memorize a new verse by the time you’re done.

**4). Set reminders**

If you struggle with forgetfulness (as we all do), try creating reminders for yourself, at least until a new rhythm becomes a full-fledged habit. Set an alarm on your phone to train yourself to engage with God at a certain time, or leave a Post-It note where you’ll see it each day (on a mirror, in your car, at work).

Or, try an app. Several people in our church family use the Abide app, which offers daily prayer guides targeted toward specific areas, such as anxiety, gratitude, growth and rest. You can set up the app to send you a daily reminder notification at a specified time.

Triggers also might prove helpful. Pick something quirky that sticks out in your mind and will remind you to engage with God whenever you see it. Maybe it’s a type of car or a song on the radio. Or perhaps something more in your face ― like a memory verse that’s on your phone’s wallpaper or engraved on a bracelet ― will work.

**5). Own your failure**

You know when you forget to return someone’s call or email, then avoid that person out of guilt when you run into them? Don’t let that be your relationship with God.

Inevitably, your disabilities will get in the way. So when you fail to engage with God, own up to that failure and release any guilt that comes with it. Because when you move closer to God, God will move closer to you.

_Did you miss any part of the Rhythms series? Listen to it [here](http://hobokengrace.com/series/rhythms/)._


Five Tips If You’re Struggling to Develop Rhythms

When I was in high school, my dad rededicated his life to Christ. My mom saw his newfound faith as something good and important for him, but not necessarily something for her. For almost a decade, my parents went to separate churches. And gradually, my mom stopped attending on a regular basis.

“Even though I prayed and thanked Him and talked to Him, I just felt like something was missing,” she said.

When I came to work for Hoboken Grace full time and started pursuing a career in ministry, my mom said she began attending church again, but this time via Livestream. At first, it was just a way for her to connect with me and see what I was up to. But what started out as a way to spend some virtual time with her son turned into long phone calls with me to discuss the message and deep conversations over dinner with my dad.

It was clear that God was beginning to speak into her life, and when my parents came to visit me and my wife in Hoboken, they came to church with us. After years of separate Sunday mornings, Hoboken Grace became the first church where my parents worshipped together again.

A couple of years later, my dad emailed me with the news that he and my mom had found a church for them to attend together. My dad cut ties with his previous church, where he had served for over a decade, in order to be able to worship with his wife every Sunday. Flatiron Community Church in Lafayette, Colorado, became the church they attended as a couple.

My mom says she felt the tug to head back to church because there was something missing in her life, and she didn’t know exactly what it was.

Even with a new church home, my mom still kept connected with Hoboken Grace. She attended service at Flatiron on Saturday nights, just so she could watch Livestream on Sunday mornings. Often, the two messages, delivered on opposite sides of the country, struck similar chords, and my mom would call me up to ask me if we were on some kind of overlapping sermon calendar. I told her no, but that I always think that God knows what people need to hear, and He can use that across any number of miles.

After going to Flatiron for about a year, my mom said that church was great, but she still felt like something wasn’t right.

“I needed something more, and I just didn’t know what it was. I prayed for Him to give me an answer,” she said.

As my mom attended Flatiron and tuned in to join me at Hoboken Grace, the topic of baptism seemed to surface again and again. Both churches believe that baptism is a symbol of a life changed and a sign that someone has placed their faith in Jesus Christ.

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“I would hear about baptism and think I had already taken that step because I was baptized as a baby,” said my mom. “I don’t remember it, but my parents said they did it.”

Then on May 14, Flatiron Community Church presented a message dedicated to baptism. That night, after the service, before bed, my mom prayed that God would give her a sign or something to let her know if she was supposed to take the step of baptism.

“The next day we made sure to tune into Hoboken Grace because Anthony said he would be giving the message. He never tells us what he’s going to be talking about, so it’s always a surprise,” said my mom. Imagine her shock when the message was all about baptism as well.

“I thought, ‘There it is. There’s my sign.’ I felt like it’s something I had to do,” said my mom. “I knew that my parents baptized me for a reason, but now as an adult, it was time to show everyone that it’s my choice. No one talked me into it. It was time for me to take the step.”

My mom called me that night, and we talked for a couple of hours about baptism. She asked when Hoboken Grace was next holding baptisms. The timing was providential – my mom and dad had already planned a trip to Hoboken over Memorial Day weekend, and Hoboken Grace had scheduled baptisms for that Sunday.

I did a pretty good job of holding it together until we hung up. Then I just started weeping. My wife was crying, too. It was something we had both been praying about, and it was just amazing to see God at work.

I always get emotional at baptisms, but just thinking about my mom doing it got me completely choked up inside. Pastor Chris asked me throughout the week if I wanted to baptize my mom. I told him I didn’t think I was going to be able to speak.

And when it was her turn to come on stage, I started to weep as soon as we began to make our way up the stairs. I was so thankful, overjoyed and proud. When Chris asked her the two questions and then stepped aside to let me baptize her, I doubt anyone heard the words of baptism I said because I was so choked up.

“I chose to do it at Hoboken Grace because I wanted my family with me,” said my mom. “I wanted my son, my daughter and my husband with me. Then when Pastor Chris told Anthony to baptize me, it just made it all the more special. It was meant to be.”

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_To learn more about taking the step of baptism, attend Hoboken Grace’s class_ [_What Is Baptism,_](https://hobokengrace.churchcenteronline.com/registrations/events/13986) _held after each service on Sunday, June 12._


Meant to Be

_TEAMS is a monthly series that celebrates the talent and impact of those who serve at Hoboken Grace._

Visit the David E. Rue Building any other day of the week and you’ll find a regular gymnasium filled with students from around Hoboken. But come Sunday morning at 9 a.m., the building is transformed into the church we know as Hoboken Grace. It’s all thanks to the persistent efforts of the setup and tear-down teams. Each week, these dedicated individuals strive to bring an empty space to life and make the building ready for worship.

The metamorphosis begins promptly at 7 a.m., when the setup team arrives to start their work.

“It’s a blank gymnasium when we arrive,” said Eric, who has been serving with the team since 2013\. “It’s our job to transform that into Hoboken Grace’s space.”

[![HG_Easter 2016_Averill-5295](https://res.cloudinary.com/dzs7qxusf/image/upload/v1/archive/2016/06/HG_Easter-2016_Averill-5295-683x1024.jpg)](https://res.cloudinary.com/dzs7qxusf/image/upload/v1/archive/2016/06/HG%5FEaster-2016%5FAverill-5295.jpg)Starting with just the bare room, the team lays down carpets before arranging the 400 chairs that get set up each week. Supplies are also brought upstairs for Grace Kids. In the meantime, the audio and visual teams get to work setting up the stage, while the hospitality team brings out bagels and coffee.

By the time the first people arrive, everything is ready to go. The entire process takes about an hour and a half, leaving just enough time for a prayer and a cup of coffee before services begin. According to Rick, who got involved with setup about two years ago, it’s an early start to a Sunday morning, but it’s not as bad as one might think.

“Once you get there you feel the energy to get stuff done,” he said.

And at the end of the day, the process goes in reverse. Every last thing from chairs and carpets to door stops and signs gets put back where it belongs thanks to the tear-down team. Everything the church uses is stored inside the school, meaning things need to be put back properly so that everything fits.

Work has also recently increased for both of the teams: A few months ago, service capacity was increased from 300 to 400, which translates to another 100 folding chairs to take out and pack away every week. And on busy weekends like Easter and Christmas, the room needs to accommodate 500 people.

There are nine setup team members and eight tear-down team members in total, though on average there are three or four team members there each week to help out. John Milius organizes both teams, along with the other First Impressions groups. Doug, who serves with tear-down team, enjoys being able to make everything come together from behind the scenes each week.

“There’s pretty much an unlimited amount of work,” said Doug. “Extra hands are always welcome.”

As a part of the setup team, Eric says the best part is getting to spend time with other people while he serves.

“I met a lot of great people,” he said. “It’s not just about transforming the room. It’s sharing that fellowship with people. It’s like going to the gym — no one’s ever regretted it afterward.”

**The Setup/Tear-down Teams**

**Mission:** Transforming the space at 301 Garden to create a comfortable and welcoming atmosphere for those who join us on Sunday mornings.

**The commitment:** Serves on Sunday mornings.

**How you can join or find out more information:** Email [milius@hobokengrace.com](mailto:milius@hobokengrace.com).

_Want to learn more about serving on a team at Hoboken Grace? Attend our_ [_Intro to Impact_](https://hobokengrace.churchcenteronline.com/registrations/events/9294) _class this Sunday from 12:45 pm – 1:45 pm. You can also join a team [here](http://hobokengrace.com/serve)._ 

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How a Room for Play Becomes a Place to Pray

Once a year, GO Jersey City brings dozens of people together to serve the city, its residents and some of the organizations that make the community feel like home. This Saturday, June 4, volunteers will disperse across the city with gardening tools, paint brushes and the common goal of making a difference in one day. They’ll head to New City Kids, Liberty State Park, the Harsimus Cemetery, Van Vorst Park, the Liberty Humane Society and several other projects.

“It’s God’s way of using us to reach out to others and serve the community by sharing our love,” says Veroneque, who is helping plan the event with Downtown Community Church.

Volunteers will meet at Van Vorst Park at 10 a.m., then work at various projects throughout the city until about 1 p.m. (when the after-party begins). They’ll hold a food collection for St. Lucy’s Shelter, meet some furry friends at the Liberty Humane Society and remove graffiti near the Grove Street PATH. They’ll also help maintain the grounds at the historic Harsimus Cemetery, prepare Liberty State Park for summer and meet with seniors who are preparing for college at New City Kids.

While the event itself lasts only a few hours, its impact extends far beyond that. For one, the city is left a little cleaner and a little greener after volunteers wrap up a dozen projects across the community. But the event is also about making lasting connections. It’s a way for neighbors to connect as they serve alongside one another. And for Downtown Community Church, the event leads to new partnerships and service opportunities with organizations throughout the city.

“It allows an annual event to suddenly become more than that and open doors to many other opportunities throughout the year,” says Wayne, the pastor at Downtown Community Church. “Through this we’ve done several mini-projects this past year, and now new projects have developed in 2016 because of this. Whether it’s the local parks, the HSDID (Historic Downtown Special Improvement District) or local food banks, we’ve become more connected.”

This year, Wayne says the goal is for GO Jersey City to become even more of a community event.

“We want to create a place for residents of downtown Jersey City to give back, get to know the needs of their community and develop relationships to serve again in the future,” he says. “We want to see not just Downtown Community Church attenders serving, but many from the city joining together, and it’s already happening.”

_You can learn more about GO Jersey City and register for the event [here](http://www.downtownjc.church/gojc/)._

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THIS Saturday: GO Jersey City

I’m willing to bet that if I asked you if you are going to attend the next [Teams Night](http://hobokengrace.com/blog/what-the-heck-is-teams-night/), your answer would be something along the lines of, “we’ll see” or “if I don’t have anything else going on that night.” There may be some of you who are anxiously awaiting the date of the next one, but I would guess that on the whole most of you are on the fence about whether to attend or not.

Allow me to blow that all up for you with this announcement:

The next Teams Night will be held on [THURSDAY, June 9th](https://www.facebook.com/events/1393197857361983/) at 8 p.m. at 301 Garden Street.

Before you drop your coffee and toss your phone, here’s why we’re moving Teams Night to a Thursday.

**1.) We want to talk to you**

If you’ve never been, [Teams Night](http://hobokengrace.com/blog/teams-night-its-time/) is a night for everyone who is serving in our family to come together all at once. It’s our chance to celebrate what God is doing in and through our teams and be refueled by Christ’s incredible message of grace and love. It’s a special time where Pastor Chris gets to speak directly to those of you who give so much for the mission of helping people find their way back to God. We want that time with all of you specifically and quite frankly, you need it. And here’s why.

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**2.) We don’t want you to do it alone**

It can be easy to walk into a night like this and immediately think that this is a chance for you and God to spend time together alone and that whatever happens is personal and private.

Here’s the thing – our relationship with God is meant to be personal. Personal, but not private.

Our heart is that you actually have a chance to exist with the people that you serve with, week in and week out, for a moment outside of serving. We want you to stop and give God the praise and thanks He deserves for the things He is doing through your team and through our family as a church. SPOILER ALERT: For this particular Teams Night, we really want to give you a chance to share how God is working in your serving and how He has done so through the people you serve alongside. And to do that TOGETHER.

**3.) We want you to go**

Do you ever get to the end of the week and you are just completely spent? Same here. Is it impossible to get a babysitter on Friday? We know. Do you have three other invites for events on Friday? We figured you might. That’s why we want you to have that breath of fresh air at Teams Night before the end of the week hits. Simply put, we want to make it easy for you to say YES to Teams Night, YES to spending time with your people and with the One who deserves it the most.

Bottom Line: If you’re serving at Hoboken Grace, mark your calendar for Thursday, June 9th at 8 p.m. at 301 Garden Street. We’ll see you at Teams Night.


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