_If you are interested in joining our next missions trip, [fill out this form](https://hobokengrace.churchcenter.com/people/forms/15765)!_ 

This February, several of us traveled to Mexico on a missions trip with our partner organization Casa Hogar Alegre.

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Casa Hogar Alegre provides a refuge for orphaned and abandoned children. By partnering with this organization and their mission, we can provide love and care for the children of Chiapas who have already been through so much in their young lives.

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These children are fed, clothed and educated and through these acts they are given an opportunity to discover the hope that is found in Jesus. The goal of the mission in Mexico is to care for the physical well-being of these children and encourage their spiritual growth. 

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The team arrived in Mexico filled with excitement to get involved and to work with the children. Packed in their suitcases were toys, clothes and plenty of soccer balls for the children to play with. The first day of the trip was largely spent in the classroom with the children, interacting with all of them and helping them get through their work. 

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In the following days, some team members got to work on some projects building projects that involved painting, restoring and organizing on-site locations. Other team members continued their work with the children, running VBS classes, playing soccer, teaching them new sports and making different crafts with them. Through all of these activities, the children and families of Chiapas were able to see and experience the love of Jesus up close. 

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In our next trip, we will partner with Potter’s House, who tirelessly give back to those who live in some of the most impoverished areas of Guatemala.

_If you are interested in joining our next missions trip, [fill out this form](https://hobokengrace.churchcenter.com/people/forms/15765)!_


Impacting Lives Through Missions!

_To take a look back on Restoring Love, [click here](https://hobokengrace.com/series/restoring-love/)!_

**A Few Last Words**

As we bring “Restoring Love” to a close I want to share a few last words about how the pillars and the example of Christ should impact specifically how we date. If our defining characteristic is love and dating is pursuing the one you’ll love for the rest of your life, we should value dating well.

Now, if you haven’t watched the last series this may be a little confusing, so I highly encourage you to go back and [revisit those conversations](https://hobokengrace.com/series/restoring-love/). We left off discussing how God wants to have a full relationship with us, actually a relationship that’s overflowing. We talked about how we often will compromise one of the four pillars (or jars) to pour into something that doesn’t hold water; sexuality, power, success, being envied. God calls us, however, to something better, to live a full life experiencing a full relationship with Him. When that happens it changes almost every aspect of dating.

I want to take a second to talk through some of those implications. This isn’t exhaustive, but hopefully it’s helpful. I’ll start from the most obvious and move toward the more subtle.

**Understanding the Pillars changes what we look for.**

This is the most obvious. Rather than pursuing the person who’s the most successful or most attractive, we prioritize character. We pursue someone who honors their commitments and is committed to people not just projects. We value spiritual chemistry and intellectual chemistry not just physical and emotional chemistry, and we pursue people who are willing to be known and live in real community with others. I won’t spend more time on this as we talked about it at length.

**The Pillars change what we develop in ourselves.**

All of us are working to attract others. We all do it. We all do it in different ways. Some of you may say, “No, I’m not interested in being attractive!” You may not be interested in looking good, but you are interested in being attractive. You want people to like you. Maybe you use humor. Maybe you want to be liked by people who don’t like people, so you work to attract them and show how anti-people you are. Everyone does it. The question is what do you want to be your defining feature. What makes you attractive? When you understand the example of Jesus it changes what you want to develop in yourself to attract others.

**But no one is attracted to the pillars.**

Not true. People who are working to develop character, commitment, holistic love, and intimacy will be attracted to people who have them. You will attract the people who care about the same things. This is a fairly consistent principle in life. If you go for power, you will attract people who care about power. Good luck with that. If you go for sexuality, you will attract people who care most about sexuality. It’s not difficult to understand. If you work to build the pillars in your life you will attract people who care about loving the way God loves.

Are there many who are actually attracted to that? There are more than you think, and the whole reason we did this series is to help us all move in that direction. Are you one of them?

**Where do I find them?**

Church. The best place to find someone who values the example of Christ is church. The best way to find someone who wants to love that way is to get busy (maybe not the right wording) loving that way as part of Jesus’ family. Ana and I connected because we were engaging ministry together not because we were looking for someone else. Begin serving and start paying attention to those who are as passionate about serving as you are. It is absolutely the best way to develop the pillars in your life and to see them demonstrated in someone else’s life.

**I can’t date someone I go to church with.**

If that’s true, you’re dating the wrong way. I used to tell staff members who began to date, “I want you to know, if this goes wrong and only one of you can attend this church, it won’t be you.” I wanted them to handle themselves in a way that would allow the relationship to end without it being impossible to be in the same room together. The pillars actually make this possible for several reasons.

1. You value character. This means you don’t date to take from one another but to make one another better. It doesn’t mean it won’t hurt, but it’s not devastating. I often hear people say, “that was a complete waste of my life” as they exit a relationship. Why? Did you not help each other become better? Unfortunately, we often don’t, but when you understand and value the pillar of character it changes what you want for them and what you’re working to show them.

1. You keep intimacy and commitment linked. Usually when the breakup results in no longer being able to see one another again it’s because they broke this principle. They allowed themselves to become physically intimate when they weren’t committed in marriage. I know “Friends” taught you that you can sleep with all your friends and still be friends, but they couldn’t have lied more if they tried. Don’t test it, the principle always holds up. Once you allow physical intimacy without commitment (real commitment, marriage, not I REALLY like you) you make the future extremely difficult if the relationship doesn’t last.

1. You value spiritual chemistry. You care about how they are growing! I can’t tell you how many times people will start to date or get married and pull back in their involvement. It shocks me. Why aren’t you caring about your spiritual chemistry? Why aren’t you helping them to engage more. Why would you be hindering their growth? Don’t you understand what feeds their ability to love you? IT’S NOT MORE TIME WITH YOU! It’s a better relationship with Him.

1. You’re known by those around you. You’re honest with people in your life about how you’re treating the one you’re in a relationship with. They keep you honest about whether you’re giving or taking. They help you stay true to the first three points.

I could probably go on for quite some time on this one, but hopefully you get the point. If you love like Jesus, you don’t have to be afraid of dating someone you go to church with.

**The Pillars give you the confidence to ask them out.**

Remember, the heart of our whole conversation was not how we should love, but how we ARE loved. Jesus is the source of “living water”. He wants you to be full. He wants you to be loved. When you experience that it changes how you view rejection. We aren’t shaped by whether they say yes or no. We’re full. We can seek others not because we need love, but because we want to love.

Some of you need to step up, guys, and ask her out. You see the love of Jesus developing in her but you’re missing your opportunity because you’re afraid of being rejected. Maybe she will say no, it doesn’t change how you’re loved or how valuable you are to the one who loves you most. Embrace the love Jesus has poured into your life and ask her out!

**The Pillars exist in all relationships.**

You don’t need to get married to experience what we’ve talked through. I’ve said it before. You shouldn’t live alone. You need to be developing this in all relationships in your life. There is no magic in a romantic relationship that will transform who you are or how you engage those around you. Whatever you struggle with before marriage, you’ll struggle with after marriage. Don’t wait to start practicing loving this way.

1. Set out to further develop your character. You know your weaknesses. Go back to our conversation on Jan. 2nd, 2022 and begin developing a life plan.

1. Commit to people. Commit to a dinner group. Invite someone to be an accountability partner and commit to consistent time together. Start a family dinner for your friends and have dinner together once a week or every other week. Practice commitment.

1. Engage with all of who you are. Work at ensuring people know every aspect of who you are not just one aspect. Share your faith. Work to serve others physically.

1. Be known. You don’t need to be completely known by everyone, but you need to be known by someone. Work to develop two relationships with people you are completely open and honest with. Don’t hide.

“By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another.” – John 13:35

We know what it looks like. We get to experience it with Him, and we get to share it with the world around us.

_To take a look back on Restoring Love, [click here](https://hobokengrace.com/series/restoring-love/)!_


Restoring Love: A Few Last Words

It’s not easy to get out of bed on the day that we lose an hour to daylight savings time, but our annual Pajama Jam celebration had the kids from Grace Kids dragging their parents out of the house and over to 301 Garden Street on March 13th! 

For weeks we had been telling parents and families about something special planned for that Sunday and the day had finally arrived! It was cuteness overload on the 4th floor as little ones as young as 10 weeks old all the way up to 5th grade were arriving in their best (and comfiest) attire.

Everywhere you looked there were fuzzy slippers, unicorn rodes, and superhero onesies. Our teachers even got to wear fun t-shirts stating “These are my PJs!” 

It was an exciting opportunity to have fun and build relationships outside of a typical Sunday. There were fun games and sleepover-themed activities, and some groups even got to wrap their small group leaders in toilet paper! 

Needless to say, everyone had a blast and the lost hour of sleep was quickly forgotten on this special day! We never thought we’d say it, but we can’t wait for daylight savings time to come again so we can enjoy another Pajama Jam!

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Pajama Jam 2022 Recap


We’ve all been there. Your date night is set with a reservation to your favorite Hoboken restaurant. Your outfit is picked out and ready to go… and then it hits you. You’re all ready but you’re unsure what you’ll fill your conversation with that night.

We’re here to help.

In a [recent message](https://hobokengrace.com/podcast/holistic-love-part-2/) shared by Pastor Chris he encouraged us to create space for conversation in our relationships. Over the years I have found it helpful to think of the questions I want to ask my spouse before the date.

We reached out to our married dinner group leaders to hear their go-to date night questions that fit well inside of how Jesus encourages us to love in [Mark 12:30](https://www.bible.com/bible/116/MRK.12.30.NLT). Feel free to make them your own!

### Intellect

Did you read/follow/or listen to something this week that you found interesting?

What’s something new you learned recently?

What are you looking forward to this week?

### Physical

What are you stressing about right now?

What can I do to make this week easier for you?

Is there anything lingering on your/our to-do list that I can help with?

### Emotion

What made you laugh or smile this week?

What made you feel loved this week?

Is there an area where I could be more engaged?

### Spirit

How have you experienced God this week?

What is God teaching you as you spend time with Him?

How can I pray for you this week?

How has your God time been/how have your rhythms been?

_Photo by **[Katerina Holmes](https://www.pexels.com/@katerina-holmes?utm%5Fcontent=attributionCopyText&utm%5Fmedium=referral&utm%5Fsource=pexels)** from **[Pexels](https://www.pexels.com/photo/romantic-couple-standing-on-street-5911017/?utm%5Fcontent=attributionCopyText&utm%5Fmedium=referral&utm%5Fsource=pexels)**_

_To hear more from our Restoring Love conversation, [click here](https://hobokengrace.com/series/restoring-love/)._


Improving Date Night

_If you have any questions about baptism, [‘What is Baptism](https://hobokengrace.com/baptism/)‘ is held after every service on the first Sunday of the month!_

It is always a joy when someone chooses to be baptized with us. Witnessing someone make this public commitment to Him is a powerful moment. Smiles are abundant and powerful energy fills the room every time!

We spoke with Lizhi to learn more about her experience and her motivations to take this exciting step.

**Story Team: What led you to take the step of baptism?**

**Lizhi:** I have been listening to / reading the scriptures since the onset of the pandemic. The words of God gave me power and carried me through a difficult time. Finally, last month as I sat in my living room, I felt this urge coming from within telling me to take the step. I believe it’s the calling from the holy spirit – so I reached out to Hoboken Grace (to who I got introduced by my friend Rachel who has been going here for a long time I believe), and the rest is the story.

**Story Team: What was the feeling like as you were baptized?**

**Lizhi:** Surreal, as I was surrounded by my friends and the only one during that time who got baptized. I felt special in a good way, watching myself on the screen for the first time. As I got lifted up from the water, I felt both calm and excited at the same time. I am very grateful for everyone present at that moment.

**Story Team: Who was up there with you?**

**Lizhi:** My friends and the pastor.

**Story Team: For another Hoboken Grace community member who may be thinking about taking this step, what would you say to them?**

**Lizhi:** You don’t need to rush but also don’t wait too long. Take a leap of faith when you are somewhat ready.

**Story Team: How has baptism changed how you think about the future?**

**Lizhi:** Haha, it’s only been a week so it’s hard to say. But I’ve been practicing morning prayers and reading the scriptures daily to get started with the good habit. I want to get more involved with volunteer work in the future (I have reached out to an organization and am waiting for the next step). Also, I look forward to more events from Hoboken Grace in the future!

_If you have any questions about baptism, [‘What is Baptism](https://hobokengrace.com/baptism/)‘ is held after every service on the first Sunday of the month!_


A Powerful Moment: Baptism


_If you’re interested in joining a team at Hoboken Grace, click [here](https://hobokengrace.com/teams/)._

After experiencing Sundays and dinner group, Ken felt an urge to give back by joining a team at Hoboken Grace. He made the commitment without knowing what it would mean for his personal growth or how much it would impact others, but the journey is one that he’s humbled by now.

We sat down with Ken to hear more. Check it out!

**Story Team: Can you describe your role on Sundays?**

Ken: I am the video team lead for the production team, which means that my team and I are responsible for the live video content you see on the big screens as well as the online live streams. You’ll find me most Sundays in the booth, behind the multi-screens, helping coordinate our camera efforts.

**Story Team: Why did you choose that team as the best way to serve for you?**

Ken: I was invited to check out the production team by a fellow dinner group member who knew I was interested in volunteering. I started shadowing the team about two and a half years ago, and I’ve come to love being part of the team since.

**Story Team: How has the role impacted your sense of community?**

Ken: The majority of my Christian life previously had been spent mostly receiving from the church, but never really contributing back in a meaningful way. Once I began serving, the irony I’ve found is that the more I gave to church and God, the more I received back!

There’s a very strong sense of community amongst the volunteers – not just within the production team but across every team. It is incredibly exciting and motivating to be part of this effort together.

**Story Team: Have you been able to impact others?**

Ken: The direct impact I have on others from behind the booth is a little hidden, but as a team we’re very confident in what we bring to the overall service experience. Especially during the past year and a half when digital became so important. We love having the privilege of being able to deliver the Sunday service experience to online viewers in Hoboken, Hudson County, and beyond!

**Story Team: What would you say to someone who is thinking about serving or volunteering at Hoboken Grace?**

Ken: There’s a special joy that comes from serving and contributing to the mission. Come try it yourself and find out!

_If you’re interested in joining a team at Hoboken Grace, click [here](https://hobokengrace.com/teams/)._


Ken’s Commitment to Serving!


_To learn more about joining a dinner group, click [here](https://hobokengrace.com/dinnergroups/)._

Dinner groups are at the core of what we do to build community! Our Story Team sat down with Karl to learn more about his experience with a men’s dinner group.

It’s a fitting topic as we continue to focus on what leads to successful relationships during our Sunday conversations this February.

Check it out!

**Story Team: What do you love about being a part of the dinner group?**

Karl: I love that it’s a supportive group of men who consistently show up for each other. From my first time attending, I felt that no one was there out of mere obligation. It’s a group that is relatable, funny, and whose collective heart is to see every brother succeed and live well in the power of Jesus.

**Story Team: What is the story about how you joined a dinner group?**

Karl: Pastor Anthony told me about dinner groups and gave me the name of a dinner group leader to reach out to. I figured I would eventually join a group, but had no immediate plans. Then I went to [Amplify](https://hobokengrace.com/amplify/), and met my now good friend, Eric. That conversation inspired me to join a dinner group right away.

Almost immediately I knew I had joined a great group and I never felt like a stranger.

**Story Team: Was there any self doubts that you had to overcome?**

I didn’t have to overcome any doubts except a personal inclination I have towards solitude. But I can easily say that the community and camaraderie the dinner group adds to my life is invaluable!

**Story Team: Tell us about the relationships you’ve formed along the way?**

The entire group is low-key now a part of my circle. A special shout out to my dinner group leader CJ (the best Hoboken Grace has!). He fosters an environment where relationships feel easy and natural.

**Story Team: What excites you about the future of the dinner group/where your dinner group is headed?**

I think I’m most excited about what is it in the moment. It already holds a special place in my heart and has been core to my spiritual development the last few months.

_To learn more about joining a dinner group, click [here](https://hobokengrace.com/dinnergroups/)._


Karl’s Experience in Dinner Group!

_If you have any questions about baptism,_ [‘What is Baptism](https://hobokengrace.com/baptism/)_‘ is held after every service on the first Sunday of the month!_

We are always humbled when someone decides to take the step of baptism with us. It’s an amazing celebration to see someone take this public step forward in their commitment to Him, and it’s always a powerful feeling in the room. You will see a champagne bottle pop!

Each person has their own reasons for taking this step, so we connected with Natalia to hear more about her decision and experience.

**Story Team: What was the feeling like when you got baptized?**

**Natalia:** The second I got on the stage I got this incredible sense of calm and peace and gratitude. On stage, I felt the love and support of the entire church community, but when I closed my eyes to accept the baptism, I felt as though the entire world had stopped and I was sitting in the embrace of God. I was so happy to say “Yes” to God. I was presenting myself to God as His child. and I felt loved and supported by Him and by all my family and friends and the church community as witnesses.

**Story Team:** **Who was there with you?**

**Natalia:** I was joined on stage by my husband, my sister, and the majority of our dinner group, as well as some close friends from church. I felt they were also receiving the blessings of the holy spirit as they have seen a tremendous transformation that God has created in my life and around us.

**Story Team: For another Hoboken Grace Community member who may be thinking about taking this step, what would you say to them?**

**Natalia:** Don’t hesitate, do not show resistance; if the thought of getting baptized is already there it’s because your heart needs it. God speaks to us in different ways. If you’ve had the thought of getting Baptized it is because God is personally pursuing you.

**Story Team:** **What made you take the step of baptism?**

**Natalia:** For this, I have a simple answer and it is just the incredible love of God! God has shown me in many ways that He loves me, that I am His daughter and that I am not alone. He taught me with facts in my life that if I give Him the control He can do amazing things. He cured my heart of sadness and emptiness and He used me to save someone I love from the darkness. God forgave me and taught me to forgive, to love, and to be who I am. He has transformed my life completely so in an act of gratitude, love, and obedience I promised to Him I will demonstrate my faith in this way through Baptism. He is my holy father and I love Him. I trust Him and I boldly proclaim that He has all the control in my life.

_If you have any questions about baptism, [‘What is Baptism](https://hobokengrace.com/baptism/)‘ is held after every service on the first Sunday of the month!_


Natalia Talks Baptism!

_To learn more about VIBE email kids@hobokengrace.com._

The middle school experience is hard. And so we started VIBE as a weekly program to provide kids with a refuge from all the peer pressure and social media. It’s held on Thursday nights and the team constantly plans fun and engaging activities that are focused on restoring and re-energizing these students. It’s a way to start or deepen their relationship with God and to do that with friends!

But don’t take it from us. Last night we asked a few of the middle schoolers what they think of VIBE:

“I love being at VIBE because it provides a safe environment for me to talk about what’s been going on and I love seeing my friends and love how they present the Bible and church to us in a middle school friendly way!” – Loren

“I like how all of the small group leaders are really committed to doing their work and I know they work really hard to set things up. I just look forward to having fun every Thursday and learning about God! – Kaylee

“We like it because of the music!” – Isabella and Autumn

“I look forward to talking about God and meeting new people.” – Jordan

“I feel like when we come here, even though the central idea is to learn about God, it isn’t super overbearing. You don’t learn too many things at once.” – Jose

“My favorite thing about VIBE is having fun and the friendships I’ve made.” – Christopher

“I look forward to having fun!” – Brody

“VIBE is a place where we make an absolute fool of ourselves, eat lots of snacks, and have just pure fun… and maybe win some gift cards!” – Sadie

“VIBE is a place where I can hang out with my friends and learn about bible stuff…but it sticks and you can apply it to your life.” -Ashley

“I look forward to seeing friends and learning more about Jesus and winning prizes and playing fun games!” – Katherine

_To learn more about VIBE email kids@hobokengrace.com!_ 


That Middle School VIBE!

_To learn more about Financial Peace University, click [here](http://www.getfinhealthy.com)!_ 

As we continue the Get Fin Healthy conversation, we sat down with Fernanda and Justin to talk about their own experience with navigating a difficult financial situation. One that many in our area find themselves working through. But there is hope and a way to get through it all. Let’s hear what they had to say!

**Prior to Financial Peace University, how did finances and money make you feel?**

We felt like money controlled us. Justin had a lot of student loan debt and we were paying the bare minimum. We felt like we couldn’t tithe or give much, because we had this huge burden weighing us down.

**At what point did you realize that your financial situation might require a more focused plan?**

It was when we were taking our pre-marital class with Hoboken Grace. We always thought of our finances individually, but it was when we got engaged and took the pre-marital class that we realized that we needed a financial plan for our family. Still, it was only with FPU that we felt that we had the right tools and principals to deal with our finances.

**What did Financial Peace University represent in that moment, and was it a relief to start classes?**

We took FPU in 2018 and it was very timely because it was when Justin graduated, got a job and we could put more income towards paying debt. So it felt like a relief in the sense that it helped us understand how to take back control of our finances and allocate our income to the right place.

**As the program continued, what progress did you see? Were there any setbacks? What was that full experience like?** 

As the class progressed, we realized that we could pay off debt way quicker than we thought of, which was a huge relief. It was an amazing experience to be vulnerable not only with each other, but also with our group about not only our finances, but also our priorities and goals in life.

We were also able to establish habits that we still apply to this day. For example, all purchases above $20 are ran by each other beforehand and we have a monthly budget meeting.

**Has FPU impacted your life outside of your finances? If so, in what way(s)?**

We became more open with each other and our faith in God’s plan increased in ways we didn’t expect. We were able to pay off debt before we expected and started giving to the Home Initiative. God challenged us to give to church like never before and, by His provision, we increased our tithing by more than seven times what we were contributing before.

**What advice would you give someone who is considering FPU, but doesn’t feel ready?**

It can definitely feel overwhelming to start FPU, but this is a step in faith. From our experience, we felt very welcomed in our group, which made us comfortable to share about our financial struggles. We then discovered that other people had the same questions and habits that we did, which really created a bond between us.

What’s most important during this financial journey is to trust Him. All in all, it’s His money and we want to follow His plan. If it seems too overwhelming, that’s fine. Just go ahead and trust. You will see how much He can do through you.

_To learn more about Financial Peace University, click [here](http://www.getfinhealthy.com)!_ 


Living Fin Healthy!

_To learn more about Get Fin Healthy and Financial Peace University, click [here](https://hobokengrace.com/get-fin-healthy/)._

This Sunday we’re launching into a brand new conversation on Sunday called Get Fin Healthy. We’ll be walking through how anyone can have the greatest intentions in the world, but if they aren’t intentional with finances it’ll be difficult to experience the joy of a generous life. Invite a friend and join us as we break down the role of money in life.

And we’re not going to leave you hanging! Build on what we learn in Get Fin Healthy by joining a new round of Financial Peace University (FPU). Classes begin the week of January 24th with flexible time and location options to fit your schedule. FPU is where you’ll hear lots of powerful information and learn practical ways to be more intentional with money.

In the meantime, we know you might have questions. Here are some answers!

**What is point of Get Fin Healthy and FPU?**

Most of us want to impact the world around us — we want to be able to help our friends when they’re in need or to give more freely to certain causes. But very few of us are positioned for impact. We have the greatest of intentions, but because of the way we interact with money, we’re not positioned to do this well.

**Who is FPU best suited for?**

No matter where you are in your finances, FPU is for you. For some of us, it’s about getting out of debt. For others, it’s about planning for the future or managing the tension between saving and giving. Some might already be on the right track and this is a way to further expand your impact or share that knowledge with your community. 

Plus, it’s a great way to learn what the Bible actually says about money. Wherever you are, there’s something to gain by taking FPU. And it’s a course for everyone — you don’t have to be a “numbers” or “spreadsheets” person.

**How much will I need to share about my finances in FPU?**

Only what you’re comfortable with. While there is a discussion component each week, that part of the class serves simply as a way to dive deeper into the lesson. You’ll never be asked to present your budget or divulge other personal details about your finances to the group.

**What if I have more questions?**

Great! We would love to answer any questions that you may have. To submit an inquiry, email info@hobokengrace.com.

[ Sign Up for FPU today!](https://hobokengrace.com/get-fin-healthy/) 


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_To check out the full 2021 Impact Report, click [here](https://www.flipsnack.com/hobokengrace/annual-report-2021%5Fsmall/full-view.html)._

Together, we were able to love and serve Hoboken in 2021 more than ever before. The Home Initiative is enabling so much and has primed us to grow that impact in 2022\. It’s just amazing to see how much God has accomplished through our family, and we can’t to see how He guides us moving forward.

To celebrate, here’s a look back at some of our favorite photos from 2021!

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Superheroes, princesses, firefighters, and everything in between – Grace Kids brought their A-game when it came to our annual costume party. Everyone was dressed to impress!

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Fall would be incomplete without a hike into the Ramapo mountains. What a great way to enjoy nature and get some exercise. Getting steps in has never been more fun. It was just one of many amazing connection events!

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Every Sunday morning (and early afternoon!) at 301 Garden was a special time to come together as a community. We get to celebrate the one who loves us most while catching up with everyone over the weekend.

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1Day Hoboken 2021 was an achievement. More than 30 projects and 1600 hours of community service were completed. The after-party on the roof at 301 was also a great way to celebrate the day and everyone’s contributions. We don’t just live here, we love here!

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The past year saw everyone building deeper connections and finding community in Hoboken. Dinner groups were a core piece of that! Once a week groups got together to grow closer, enjoy genuine company and walk more closely with God. Incredibly, almost 1,900 total dinner group meet-ups took place in 2021, and we can’t wait to see what next year brings!

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The Lawn served us in so many wonderful ways. From Labor Day to just a regular Tuesday night, we celebrated, gathered, and served our community on that grass turf. It was just an incredible opportunity to love our city through difficult circumstances!

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Every Sunday at 301 the band beautifully lead us all in worship. The team is completely committed to providing an empowering experience for everyone who attends. We are so thankful for the care and energy they put into every service!

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This December, the Hoboken Planning Board voted unanimously to approve our plans for the new building at 409 14th Street! Some work remains to be done, but we’re growing more excited about the potential of this amazing space. In 2022, we are going to love and serve our city more than ever before!

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With 22 baptisms and approximately 22 champagne bottle pops to celebrate them, this year’s baptisms were very special. We are always humbled when someone decides to take this step of faith with us, and we love to see how they grow in the days and years that follow!

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The annual Easter Egg Hunt is the biggest in Hudson County! After a long winter, it was great to see so many families come together to celebrate Easter. It’s become a cherished community event that we love to provide for our city!

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From VR headsets to polaroid pictures, creativity never runs out when it comes to creating excitement for Sunday conversations!

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Amplify is a great way for anyone to boost their faith and develop in areas of personal growth most relevant to them. About 246 people participated this year to experience classes with a number of different community leaders!

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Team Link is the best way to meet and greet with the team members of Hoboken Grace. There’s so many opportunities to serve no matter what your skills or interests are! 1st Impressions, Service Programming, Community, Equip, Communications, Grace Kids, Human Resources, Band & Production, Neighborhood and Technology are just some of the ways to get involved and make a difference.

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Even on the snowiest days, you don’t want to miss Sundays at 301\. But, if snow makes it unsafe or if you’re unable to attend in person, you can always virtually experience every service. In fact, about 35,249 people joined us online this year!

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Christmas is truly joyous when all the children in Hoboken and Hudson County have a gift that they can unwrap on Christmas morning! That is what we seek to provide through the Christmas Exchange, and 1,400 children in our area will know that joy because of this year’s event. What an incredible demonstration of God’s love!

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The Grace Kids concert is about as cute as it gets! In addition to the adorable performance, the ‘aww’ from everyone in attendance really ties the whole thing together. It’s unbelievable to see how much these kids have grown (literally and in their faith) all year!

_To check out the full 2021 Impact Report, click [here](https://www.flipsnack.com/hobokengrace/annual-report-2021%5Fsmall/full-view.html)._


2021: A Year of Service, Community & Impact!

_To learn more about Christmas services at Hoboken Grace, [click here](https://hobokengrace.com/capturing-christmas/)._

The 7th annual Hoboken Grace Christmas Exchange took place this past Saturday, and what an incredible day it was! Let’s take a look at the impact. More than 350+ volunteers and 570+ gift donors came together to love and serve their city by providing Christmas gifts to…**drum roll**…1,400 children in the Hoboken and Hudson County area! It’s amazing to think about the amount of joy there will be on Christmas mornings!

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Seeing all of the smiles and laughter really highlights just how important this event is for our friends and neighbors in this city. As Pastor Chris mentioned on Sunday, when we come together as a church to give and support one another…the recognition goes to Him. The role of the church becomes clear to others in our city allowing Him to reach them.

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Everybody from greeters to gift checkers to our lively elves gave it their all to make it a Christmas to remember. Not only for gift donors, but for the children and families who received gifts as well. What better way to show the love of Jesus at Christmas?

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Every December, the Hoboken Christmas Exchange is an opportunity to celebrate Christmas as a community and a way to show love beyond Sunday. We can’t wait to see how God uses this past Saturday to reach others and we can’t wait to see what next year’s event will bring. We don’t just live here, we love here!

_To learn more about Christmas services at Hoboken Grace, [click here](https://hobokengrace.com/capturing-christmas/)._


Christmas Exchange Recap

_To learn more about Grace Kids, click [here](https://hobokengrace.com/kids/)._ 

When thinking of the Christmas season, a lot of different things come to mind. The presents, the lights, the food, the family gatherings. All wonderful and all worth celebrating!

At Hoboken Grace, there’s one special tradition that really makes it feel like the holiday is here, the Grace Kids Christmas Concert. It’s a special Sunday where all the different ages of the Grace Kids program come together to sing classic Christmas songs we all know and love.

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This year, that song list included Away in a Manger, Do You Hear What I Hear, Silent Night, Oh Holy Night, The First Noel, We Wish You a Merry Christmas, and The Little Drummer Boy. The last one in particular had an extra layer of fun to it because the smaller children were playing little drums during the song.

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To those who didn’t have children of their own up on stage, it might sound like an event that’s geared towards families. But there’s a reason our church loves this event so much. Because of the love of Christmas. What better way to celebrate that love than receiving this gift from our youngest members?

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Last year’s concert was a recording and that was really great, but there’s just something special about experiencing an event like this in person that just isn’t the same on a video. We hope the concert rang in the Christmas season for many people on Sunday morning, and what a kick off it was!

_To learn more about Grace Kids, click [here](https://hobokengrace.com/kids/)._


The 2021 Grace Kids Christmas Concert!

_To learn more and to register for Amplify 2021 click [here](https://hobokengrace.com/amplify/)!_ 

The Story Team recently sat down with Jian-Ning to learn more about what its like to attend Amplify and how the experience has impacted him and his faith. Read below to hear just what he has to say about that special day and to see some pictures from the last event!

**Why was Amplify important to attend?**

It was a day that I could set aside to focus on learning on a deeper level on topics that I knew were important to my personal growth and faith journey.

**Was an area of your faith strengthened by the experience? What differences did you notice?**

I attended the Storytelling breakout track which was all about sharing the story of your faith. I think it was a great reminder that my story is worth telling and that it’s more than just the relatively short period of time when I first decided to become a Christian. It helped me to realize that God has been working consistently throughout my life and there are so many examples to share and opportunities to pour into others through storytelling.

**Did you learn anything unexpected?**

While I was expecting to learn the practical ways to talk to others about God, one of the best parts was actually the way the Story track made me look back across the different stages of my life because it reminded me of all the ways that God has been pursuing me and working in my life.

This was a pivotal moment, because while I was expecting to come out with more knowledge about how to reach more people, I actually left with an even deeper appreciation of my own faith journey. I was able to tell my story more effectively, and now I saw God’s impact in so many more ways too!

**How has your life been impacted since that time?**

I think Amplify has been part of my growth to be more open about my faith with my non-Christian friends. I think this is a difficult thing for many of us to do, but Amplify walked through how to do it naturally in the right moments.

**What would you say to someone who is hesitant about attending Amplify?**

In addition to all the good things I already mentioned I would say that it’s not just listening to a lecture. The lesson was interactive and engaging, and I got to meet and talk to people who I hadn’t met before. Last but not least the band was great as always!

Amplify is coming up on Saturday, October 30! This one day event is a personalized experience that will encourage, challenge, and equip you in area of life that is most relevant to you! There are eight exciting growth tracks based on the area you want to amplify, including: Foundations, Storytelling, Empowerment, Psalms, Parenting, Money Talk, and Wisdom Literature.

_To learn more and to register for Amplify 2021 click [here](https://hobokengrace.com/amplify/)!_ 

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Get Ready for Amplify!

When Pastor Chris says “we don’t just live here, we love here,” 1Day Hoboken is one of those special events that comes to mind first. What is 1Day you might ask? It’s a day of service and impact where we take a Saturday to tackle dozens of community service projects for our great city.

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Projects included picking up litter along the Hudson River, painting rails at different parks areas, planting along garden and walkway areas, and even partnering with more than a dozen local nonprofits and civic organizations to help them with their own projects so that they can better serve the community as well. One group of us went over to In Jesus Name Charities where we sorted and organized donated children’s clothes so that they will be easier to access and inventory when families in need request them.

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Service projects for the community have always been something that Hoboken Grace loves to be a part of, but it has taken on a whole new meaning since the launch the Home Initiative. As we put down roots here in Hoboken, we want to show this city just how much we love this great home of ours. In your home, we’re sure you like things kept nice and clean. Well, that’s exactly what Saturday was all about! Keeping this city clean and helping our nonprofit and civic partner who support underserved communities. It was just a special time to show people how much we truly care about them, and more importantly, how much God loves them too.

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As group members and leaders wrapped up their many projects throughout the city, everyone came back to 301 Garden for an epic rooftop afterparty. It was a beautiful afternoon to be up there, and seeing the community come together to celebrate their achievements was amazing. New friends and connections were being made, and we can confidently say our city is stronger in many ways after this Saturday! Overall, just standing back and seeing how many people decided to serve Hoboken on their Saturday was so rewarding, and we sure those who participated felt the same way too! 551 people to be exact!

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While 1Day is only one day out of the year, our hope is that the work we do here inspires the city and those who witnessed it to carry that work out throughout the year. 1Day Hoboken may be over for this year (looking at 2022 now!), but there is always work to be done in our community and there is never a bad time to get started in your own way!

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1Day Hoboken 2021 Recap!

_To learn more about NEXT, click [here](https://hobokengrace.com/next/)!_

NEXT is a 10-minute introduction to Hoboken Grace where you can explore who we are and find out what your next step should be. It takes place after every in-person and online service on Sundays.

To learn more about what NEXT can accomplish, we sat down with Rebecca to hear how it impacted her life and led to some amazing steps!

**What led you to find the NEXT booth after service one day?** 

It’s funny, because months previous to attending the service and stopping by the NEXT booth, I had emailed Hoboken Grace a pretty lengthy message with a series of questions about the church, it’s theology, etc etc. At the time, I was “church shopping” as my then boyfriend (now husband) and I felt it was time to make our way back to our faith. I had fired off similar emails to a few different congregations in the area. What really struck me was Anthony’s comically short response to my drawn out email. Ha! He explained how he thought that God was giving me “little nudges”, and that I should simply pop by on Sunday and see what they were all about.

**What was your experience at NEXT like?** 

At the time, I considered talking to “church people” an intimidating experience, so I was bracing myself for an awkward conversation when I walked in and saw Pastor Anthony sitting there. It was nothing of the sort. It was a quick, disarming conversation, and I left feeling validated. Anthony gave me a really awesome book to take home, and encouraged me to keep coming on Sundays. My husband and I poured over the book together over the next few weeks, and it was an amazing turning point for us.

**Were your questions and concerns answered?** 

Yes! NEXT put me at ease, and it was one tiny step out of my comfort zone. Leaving NEXT, I had a moment of clarity. I realized only God had the answers I was looking for, not people, and so I felt motivated to dive deeper.

**How have you found community or become more connected after NEXT?** 

NEXT was really the jump off for me feeling safe and ready to become more involved with Hoboken Grace. Shortly after that, we started attending Sundays regularly. From there, I felt an itch to serve. I applied to become a teacher at the After School program. Then, I met a friend who invited me to be in their dinner group. Finally, the opportunity to serve on Sundays fell into my lap. Now, I’m the Family Support Leader for the Grace Kids program and it’s been a wonderfully fulfilling adventure.

**What would you say to someone who is considering NEXT?**

Just go. No one bites, and we literally pray for you and this moment to happen! I think everyone at Hoboken Grace is genuinely eager and ready to meet you where you’re at. Just be yourself, and give yourself the chance you deserve to deepen (or start) a relationship with Jesus.

_To learn more about NEXT, click [here](https://hobokengrace.com/next/)!_


So, what is NEXT?

_Click [here](https://hobokengrace.com/fpu/) to learn more about Financial Peace University!_

New Financial Peace University (FPU) classes launch this week! Every course is designed to provide support no matter what your current income or financial health is. FPU will empower you to take control of an area of life that has a big impact on your day-to-day and long-term goals.

So, register today and let’s engage money from a new perspective to find financial freedom. Classes are offered in-person and online with different time options to fit your schedule.

We sat down with Vinny Hu, Director of Financial Health & Stewardship, to learn more about what to expect from the fall 2021 classes.

**What is FPU and what makes it different from other finance classes?**

Financial Peace University is a 9-week class that goes through finances from a very practical and Biblical perspective. The class is unique in that it has up-to-date financial information but really focuses on the habits, behaviors and relationships that are often missing from other classes.

For example, we go through budgeting and introduce accountability as a single person, as well as how to discuss money without having a fight with your spouse! We also cover other essential topics such as debt management, insurance (what to buy and what not to), investments and estate planning.

**Who should take it?**

We have found the class to be useful for everybody – from those that are struggling as well as millionaires! It is not uncommon for us to see many households have a “turnaround” (debt payment and savings) of thousands of dollars just within the 9 weeks of the class!

**How much does it cost?**

There is a $60 cost to the class that goes directly to the company that creates and maintains all of the materials. That said, we don’t want finances to prevent people from taking it, and so if cost is a barrier please do reach out to vinny@hobokengrace.com to discuss how we can help.

**When does it start and how do I sign up?**

We have 5 offerings this Fall at different times of the week with both online as well as in-person options available. The first class starts on Thursday 9/16 so sign up soon!

You can find more information and sign up at <https://hobokengrace.com/fpu> – check out some of the incredible stories of people who have experienced the power of being intentional with money!

_Click [here](https://hobokengrace.com/fpu/) to learn more about Financial Peace University!_


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